Jun 6, 2011

My Favorite Day Ever

Saturday, The Angel turned Seven.

I wonder how old she is in Angel years?

Since I don't know what a biological child experience is like,

all I have to go on is the here and now with The Angel and The Dinosaur.

There are days that I stare at her face and I wonder if she

even knows the depth of how much I admire her.

For her strength,

her laugh,

her outlook on everything,

and her ability to grieve for what she's lost

and still enjoy the present.

I am honored to share a house,

a life,

a love

with such a fighter.

I despise kid's birthday parties.

The planning,

the expense,

the expectation of outdoing the other moms on the block.

The unnecessary buying of gifts that you know will be returned

or never played with more than once.

Please hear me:


The cake.

The ice cream.

The singing.

The celebration of one's life.

An entire day about being selfish.

I want to teach my kids how to celebrate,

without the gluttony of entitlement and stuff.

We talked to The Angel a lot about what she wanted.

She only had three requests.

Dinner, with her entire family.

A new bike.

And everyone singing happy birthday


Just for her.

We gathered everyone together.

The Hero and I bought her a new bike.

I covered our house in balloons

and pink and yellow streamers.

She got a new "sparkly" tank top

and new shorts.

We all sang Happy Birthday.


Just for good measure.

We ordered her favorite cupcakes.

And made her favorite dinner.

And the grandparents overdid it with gifts.


The Hero built a bonfire.

We made smores in the backyard,

sat around the fire

and relished in the glow of her face.

As she "snuggied" in my lap

and I stroked her hair,

She smiled and told me

"Mommy, I didn't have a birthday in Africa."

"I know sweet heart."

"But mommy, it's ok. Because today is my favorite day ever."

"It is?"

"No. I guess not. Every day is my favorite day ever."

Dear Angel,

Thank you for being a daily reminder

of strength,



and opening my eyes to the fact

that each day

should be my favorite day ever.

And as long as you are a part of it,

it will be.


Matt and Sarah said...

Oh this melts my heart. She is so beautiful...inside and out!

Jennifer said...

I am fighting back tears as I read "I didn't have a birthday in Africa." Happy Birthday to the Princess! I am so glad it was such a special day for all of you.

Laura Ferry-Jimenez said...

awwww.... here's to lots and lots of favorite days! and now with future favorite family members!

so happy for you! :)

Amy said...

I love that little angel. Crazy how love covers a whole multitude of wounds. You all are just beautiful.

Sharla said...

"every day is my favourite day ever"...it doesn't get any sweeter than that!!! That is so precious!

Miche' said...
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Miche' said...

I had not read this until tonight. I cried reading this. The Angel amazes me, she has a beautiful soul and spirit. We are so blessed to have The Angel and The Dinosaur in our family. I love you guys.