Showing posts with label retention. Show all posts
Showing posts with label retention. Show all posts

Oct 29, 2011

So How is She Doing?


Ya'll will probably remember that we had to talk about the dreaded "R" word with The Angel last year after 1st grade. After much discussion and tears and debates and teachers' meetings, The Hero and The Angel cried about it. Mama blogged about it and we all prayed about it. In the end we all agreed that it was the right move to retain The Angel in first grade.
So how's she doing?
This mama is glad you asked.
She has 1st grade by the horns and is wrestling it to the ground!
It's like having a different child in the house.
Where before there were frowns and grumps about school, she bounds for the door every morning, is restless waiting for school even on Saturday.
Her scores are off the charts.
Vocabulary is above average.
Reading is through the roof.
Homework that use to take us hours to complete each night, is done now a matter of minutes.
She loves reading so much that she and I even started reading LONG chapter books together at night when The Dinosaur goes to sleep.
I am very new to this parenting thing.
Don't even have 2 years behind me yet, but I can tell you that retention has worked for us.
I am so proud of our baby girl I could burst.

The Angel,
For all that you have accomplished and all that remains to be conquered,
you are one of my heroes in life.
There is no goal you cannot reach and I am
humbled to be your mother.

Mar 31, 2011

What They Need to Know

The last few weeks have been hard. Too hard.

The "R" word has come up a lot.

Too much.

Too often.

We knew it was coming.

It was in her grades, on her lips and on her teacher's face.

But last night it was in writing. Scrawled in black ink.

"Retention for 1st grade."

Our hears sank.

Her sweet face dropped.

There were tears.

But after weeks of planning, discussion, meeting with tutors and talks with her teacher,

we are all together on this.


We're going to have one more year of 1st grade.

It bothers the Hero.

It bothers the Angel.

And the Dinosaur doesn't know any different.


But here's the truth ya'll:

"I DON'T CARE!!!!"


Please hear me again when I say:

"I DON'T CARE!!!!"


Before you scroll to the bottom and leave me some comment about parenting, or retention, or some other opinion about why any of this should bother me; save it.

I still don't care.


Before you blow off my previous statements as flippant or uninvolved, please understand.

We highly value education. I personally have a love affair with learning.

I want to give that too my daughter. And to my son.

It just isn't going to be today.

There are no delays. No medical issues holding her back.

Just one more year of growth in an academic setting.


One more year getting her feet wet in a social environment.


One more year of alphabets and simple addition.


And she'll only be seven in June.


And she's only known English for 365 days.


This mama is completely at ease with her progress.

And whether I bore her myself or not, I still would have this opinion about retention.

So as we were discussing options these past weeks, I got to wondering what it was I want my babies to know for this life.

And the truth is...

nothing on my list was to be found in a book.

It's all found in THE book.


What I really want my kids to know:


Above all else...Love.


Be completely humble Ephesians 4:2


Compassion come to me that I may live. Psalms 119:77


Dance Jer. 31:4


Eagerly wait 1Cor 1:7


Faithful Proverbs 28:20


Grateful Ps. 100:1


Hope 1 Peter 1:21


Injustice Slayer Hosea 12:6


Joyful Habbakuk 3:18


Know the Lord is with you Joshua 22:31


Live a life of Love. Ephesians 5:2


Maintain justice Amos 5:15


Never be shaken Ps. 15:5


Obey [their] parents Ephesians 6:1


Patience 2 Timothy 3:10


Quiet life. 1 Thessalonians 4:11


Rejoice Forever Is. 65:18


Sing Ephesians 5:19-20


Trustworthy 1 Timothy 3:11


Universally Love John 13:34


Walk Humbly Micah 6:8


Xpress love in all things 1 Corinthians 13:1-3


Yearn for the Lord Ps. 84:2


Zealousness Ps. 69:9


So as we prepare for one more year in first grade,


we will continue to focus on our education,


both for school and for our souls.